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I feel what you've just described is very normal. A lot of happy couples can easily say they never thought they'd end up together... a lot can tell that they thought they'd be alone for life ... or that something odd happened to bring them together or back together again. I know a few couples who made it against all odds stacked against them. The main thing here is not losing your hope, but I know that's not easy
My personal belief is that what's meant to be , will be...
if someone's supposed to be in your life, they will be no matter what. And if they leave your life temporarily and are meant to be in it, they will find their way back
Peace2all wrote: I feel that somehow, sometime in the future things will DO work
When I read that, my intuition said ''yes, it will''... that's a good sign, you feel good about it and so do I . I just feel there are some small obstacles coming your way and some already present. I'm unsure if you see this person in physical very often but that would be a good starting place for you, perhaps leaving a short time period free for them and inviting them to come and join you.... if you can't do this, communication is key. Keep checking in with them,
Keeping communication going is important for it to work, just remember to give them space when they need it. I definitely believe something lays ahead for you both... when someone has feelings for you for years, and you them.... .that's a good sign. Sometimes we can have feelings for someone that are short lived, however here it sounds like you two know each other very well and the feeling is mutual...
the best thing now would be to meet up and spend some time together. Do you feel you could ask them out on a date? or does this make you anxious?
I understand it may not be possible because you mentioned you don't want to cause destruction to others. You know it's really nice you are thinking of others but in the long term I feel there's a good chance it could work for you both. I get the impression from your post you are just slightly anxious and wanting to know if this person really is serious. I'd say to take it slowly but also to not put it off for too long. Be sure this is what you want... to be with them... because I feel he wants this definitely. Meeting for a date or ending current marriages or relationships may be tough but it's ok, it's part of life. Sometimes we can become unhappy with our lives/relationships how they are. We can feel torn between familiarity and stuff. It's ok to let go, it's possible to let go and cause minimal damage and hurt.. in the end, the way I see it is.. we're here for a short time and have got to do what is best for us. Others may be upset but they will heal in time..
I know for me, i'd be happy my loved one was happy. I'm even happy for exes.. that they eventually found happiness. Anybody who is not happy for you is probably not a true friend.. I mean...
others advice can be so conflicting. One friend may tell you this, another friend, something else. Same for psychics. one may say no one yes. I'm saying yes I feel good for you two..... just remember to be sure this is what you want. If it is, I don't see any problems :-) he's interested and I feel he'll meet you in the middle. It just may take some time. So don't be offended if he wants to meet later than you had planned to,