tried to work it all out with my dad he we all just ended up upset and stressed out.
anyway after a few days my usual babysitter kindly offered to watch her and the pets for me.
I just told my dad I could come with him and he didn't seem very welcoming to that idea, basically said hes not joking his around , his plan is set etc, and just said he didn't know.
now im funny like tht I don't like the vibes so ive decided now I don't wanna go with him at all now lol
but I do want to take advantage of my babysitter watching jj for one night on the 23rd November hopefully ill be fully well by then.
partly so I can have some time for myself for a night and a day , never done that , gone anywhere without a kid in tow as a adult for the night, I think it would be great for me to reflect, destress, recharge etc
but also good for jj to see that I can be apart from her for one night and it is fine and ok and normal, might help her anxiety.
my problem is how I tell my dad this that I don't want to go with him now, also I need to find somewhere to go with limited funds for one night on the 23rd lol, any ideas for places?